Category Archives: Tips & Tricks

Your Credit Score — It’s Your Financial Reputation

Earning Your Credit Score

The highest Credit Score is 850….and you have to earn it.  The scale goes from 300-850, and the higher your score, the better.  It means your Financial Health is on solid footing.

Along the way, your score will be checked by others….if you’re looking to rent an apartment, get a mortgage, get a loan of any sort, or acquiring credit cards. A potential employer will also check your credit, however, it is a little different and is called an Employment Screening.  They are all within their rights to do so, and can turn you down for whatever it is you are looking to get.  They don’t want to take a risk on someone who isn’t financially sound.

Your score fluctuates depending on if you pay your bills on time, according to the stipulations set up with the company you’re doing business with, as well as paying balances in full, and how much outstanding debt you have.  Each time someone checks your score, it will go down a few points.  This will reverse as your bills come in and you pay accordingly.

You can, and should, check your own Credit Score.  It’s free to do. It will let you know if someone has, and is using your information, or if they have opened new accounts in your name.  In checking, you will receive a free run-off of all your creditors, along with balances and payment history.  Scrutinize it. You can check once a year…. at each of the three companies.

  • Equifax – 1-800-685-1111
  • Experian – 1-888-397-3742
  • Trans Union – 1-800-916-8800

A good way to do this is on a quarterly basis:

January:  Equifax – – – May:  Experian – – – September: Trans Union

If you find a discrepancy of any sort, notify the Credit Company immediately.

 

Do You Know The Cost Of Being In A Wedding Party?

You want to say “yes”, but…..

Your best friend is getting engaged!  You are as excited as they are, and rightfully so.  You are also sure you will be asked to be in the wedding party, but before you agree, know what the cost to you will be….. and….can you afford it?

For the girl:  No matter the size of the wedding itself, there are certain things the maid of honor and bridesmaid(s) are expected to buy, and do.  These days the bride-to-be will usually choose a color for the dresses, then each girl in the party will purchase a dress which is flattering to her, but in the chosen color.  Along with the dress there are shoes, sometimes jewelry, and possibly specific undergarments depending on the style of the dress. Hairdos, manicures, pedicures, even facials or massages are sometimes done as a group, each girl paying their own cost, and, not always, but sometimes, possibly sharing the cost for the bride-to-be.

There is at least one shower, where the girls split the cost for the location, food, decorations, favors for each guest, and a gift for the couple.  There is sometimes a bachelorette party where each girl pays her own way, and shares the cost equally for the bride-to-be.  And, of course, there is the cost of a wedding gift, usually shared equally between the girls.

For the guy:  Usually there is a bachelor party, where the guys in the group pay their own way, and share the cost equally for the groom-to-be.  These parties can go from going out for a couple of drinks, or dinner…or maybe a larger group gathering for a party, or a night or weekend get- away.

For the wedding, a tux is usually worn, and are usually rented, along with the shoes, so everyone will be dressed alike. And, a wedding gift for the couple is usually shared by the guys.

In any case, whether you’re a girl or a guy, be prepared to be asked at least once in your lifetime.  And be prepared in your budget for the cost of accepting. Your budget should guide you to your answer.

If you cannot afford the cost, say so.  Explain how you’d love to, but your not financially able, that you are just as excited for them being a guest. And offer your help with putting up decorations, or if you’re crafty, making the favors.  Even as a guest, there is a shower gift and a wedding gift to be bought by you. So if 2 gifts are what works in your budget, let it be that, and politely decline being in the wedding party.

It isn’t wise to go into debt (or deeper debt) because you can’t say no to your friend.

 

Is Buying a Home In Your Future?

Things to consider before you purchase a home.

  1. You need 20% for a down payment, any less and you’ll need to purchase mortgage insurance, paid for on a monthly basis until that 20% is met.  It’s best to have the 20%.  There are other legal fees at time of closing, so you’ll need extra money for closing costs.
  2. You want to be sure of the area you’re choosing, and why.  Location, location, location.  If you have children, you’ll want to check the school system., and kid friendly neighborhood. If no kids, or none in your future, you’ll be thinking more of your commute to work.
  3. Don’t buy more house than you need, or can afford.  Check out mortgage rates and get in touch with a reputable mortgage lender – they’ll ask income, outstanding debt, they’ll check your credit history etc., and get back to you with an answer if they’ll take you on,  along with pertinent information for a loan – how much, according to your income to debt ratio, you can borrow for the mortgage and at what interest rate you fall under with the info given. A good Credit Score = lower interest rate. Ask for a pre-approval letter.  This gives the seller proof that you’re a serious buyer and what you are approved for.  This letter can also mean you get your dream home over another buyer without one, yet looking at the same home.
  4. However, the lender you chose, will give you the highest figure that you could possibly squeak in your budget.  A suggestion would be to look for a home below that figure.  Do your own due diligence. Crunch your own numbers.  No one knows your budget like you do.  Just because the lender says one figure, you will more than likely be more comfortable with a lower one,  This gives you some wiggle room, for ‘unexpected’ expenses – which will, as anyone who owns a home will tell you, will most definitely occur.  There are plenty of homes on the market.  You don’t want to be ‘House Poor’.  You want to sleep well at night.

Paring down your grocery bill

You can do this….

Buy the store brand whenever possible.  The store tries hard to have the same quality and taste you’re used to in the name brand products, but at a cheaper price.

Stop buying bagged snacks and candy. They’re costly, and can add $10. – $15. to your total bill with just a few bags. A bag of popcorn kernels you pop yourself is cheap and gives bowls and bowls of popcorn. Buy carrots, celery, peppers, cucumbers, zucchini, summer squash etc., add your favorites, mix it up. Wash, slice, and enjoy as is or with a dip…better for you health too.

Stop buying soda.  Water is very refreshing.  Swap out a soda, opting for water, and make that two the next day, three the following and so on.  Tap water is great.  Fill a bottle and put it on the door of the fridge where it’s handy.  You can also add a slice of lemon and or lime to it.

Cut back on meat, you don’t need it every day. To get enough protein less expensively by adding more eggs, lentils, black/white/kidney beans to recipes.  Eat more vegetables, they can be cooked in various ways, adding spices to vary the taste, most can be eaten raw.  A bonus is that they’re low in calories.

Some grocery stores go through their produce each day, package up those that are no longer  ‘up to their standard’ and put them on a shelving unit at the back of the store.  This produce is now about half the price per pound of what is in the nearby produce bins. If you don’t see it, ask the manager if they do this, and go shopping around the time it’s usually put out.

The same holds true for the bakery department.  The sell by date is the previous day, so setting it out a treat, even for guests, is fine.  Put it on a pretty plate, toss the packaging, and enjoy.

Scan the internet for new recipes.  Make up your own.  Be creative,  Cooking your own meals is far cheaper than eating out or ordering take-out. Oftentimes restaurants add a lot of salt or salt type spices.  If you’re watching your blood pressure, watching salt intake is a must.  Processed foods are also high in sodium.  Cooking at home can alleviate this problem.  Just don’t add salt.

Even if you think you can’t cook, you’ll find that it is so much easier than you think.  There are numerous easy to prepare recipes online geared to a ‘new cook’. A hint to the clean up… Once you’re through with a bowl, spoon, etc, wash it.  Get used to doing it that way and you won’t have things piled in the sink.  Clean up as you go.  If something does need soaking, fill with soap and water and while you’re enjoying your meal, it’s soaking and will be ready for easy clean up by the end of dinner.

Enjoy!

 

 

Gift Giving

How to change gift giving issues.

It’s always nice to give (and receive) a gift.  It lets the recipient know that he/she is remembered on a Special Day, or for a specific reason.  And some gifts are given/received….just because.

That said, as nice as it is, it can also get out of hand, and often does.  We all feel as though we have to give a gift to the individual(s) we received gifts from….and so, the gift giving cycle goes on…and on…..even feeling guilty if we receive a gift and don’t have one at the ready, waiting in the wings.  We’ve all been there.  But if it’s not in your budget, stop the cycle.

Years ago, you could set up a ‘Christmas Club’ at a neighborhood bank, and deposit an amount you chose each week.  Around Thanksgiving, the bank would mail a check for the amount saved in the account, minus a few dollars to keep the account open so you could continue the process each year, giving the saver cash to Christmas shop without worrying about where the money for the gifts would come from.  They don’t have these any more, but you can do something similar by saving a specific amount each month set aside specifically for gift giving….depending how many gifts you give, but even more importantly, only if your budget can handle it.  This will allow you to see just how much your spending on gifts, and thoughts of who you might be able to remove from your list.

There is no shame in saying you’re trimming your gift list, and you may be surprised to find that the other person is glad you brought it up. It is mind boggling how people continue to struggle with debt, yet continue on so others ‘won’t know’.  If you’d still like to do something for others, bake something, make something, or give of your time.  It’s the thought that counts.  And more likely than not, will be appreciated just as much, if not more.

Just a remembrance of their Special Day with a phone call or card works well.  The idea is to remember the person, and let them know you did.  It is not meant for you to go in hawk.

 

 

 

Multi Generations Living Together

All should know…. cost and chores are shared

Years ago it was the ‘norm’ for generations of families to live together. If a husband passed away, a relative, usually a brother, nephew or single aunt, would move in to share the cost of rent and food and help with the children so the widow could get a job doing laundry/housework outside the home. That type of living arrangement seems to have vanished over the decades, but now it’s making a comeback.

Before the relative, whether a parent(s), or older child moves back home, all should sit down and openly and candidly talk of the living arrangements.  Is this a long term, permanent, or short temporary time-frame… If it’s short term, how long, and get it in writing, signed by all parties concerned. An agreeable and reasonable amount set that the ‘new’ person is expected to pay and when.. each month …without asking for it, should be decided.

The room(s) or section of the home set aside for their use and upkeep of it should be discussed. The laundry and responsibility for it also discussed. Purchasing of food, and cost sharing for it, as well as cooking and clean-up of the kitchen is also a must.  Upkeep of the yard, as well as chores around the house (if a TV room is shared etc), is also on the list of discussions.

If the one moving in is still young, set some rules/guidelines for entertaining friends as well as reasonable limits for noise.  All should be respectful of others. And although that should go without saying, say it.

If there are children, and if it’s a grandparent moving in, what a bonus for all!  Usually a willing babysitter, a grandchild is a gift to a grandparent, and they have some wonderful stories to tell of times gone by. Time is a gift, and time between a grandparent and grandchild is golden.

At least once a month, more if necessary, all should sit and talk. Keep the discussion light, but address any budding issues. It’s just to make sure everything is going smoothly and according to ‘plan’.  If there are any questions, or if something specific needs to be addressed, bring it up….   nip it in the bud.

Multi generation living arrangements help all financially.  It eases rent/mortgage for the person(s) sharing their home.  The money received each month for ‘rent and food’, can go towards paying down outstanding credit cards, or better yet, savings/retirement accounts. Get disciplined right away on where the money goes…..

It is also a financial bonus for the one moving in….. it probably cuts their previous expenses considerably.  If so….. money that was previously spent can now be put into savings.

The main thing is to have everyone know and agree to the arrangements before the moving truck arrives.  And if it’s a short-term set-up, make sure that when the time is up, they should move out….unless an extension is agreed upon by all parties.

The rainbow in all this is bringing families closer and making new memories.

 

The Younger You Start Saving…..The Better

Start saving early…. every time you receive money.

  • Save a part of whatever money you receive, and whenever you receive it.
  • Deposit it into an interest bearing savings account.
  • Interest compounded daily is better than monthly or annually.
  • When there’s enough to open a CD (Certificate of Deposit), find the best rate for the length of time you choose.  CD rates are usually higher than regular savings, but come with rules.
  • At maturity of the CD, you can take it out, or roll it over adding money to it, or just rollover.  If you let the maturity pass by, it will be automatically rolled over as stated in your original agreement.
  • Add beneficiaries (one or more) to your account(s).  Should anything happen to you, the account will go directly to those of your choice. If not, the state handles it, and maybe those you wouldn’t choose yourself, will now own it.
  • As your account grows, separate it into three, liquid (immediate)  accounts — emergencies, a 6 months to 1 year ‘cushion’ account, and the third, a retirement account(s) which can be opened when you receive earned income.  Once opened, continue adding to each.
  • Over time, be more generous with your savings accounts than you are with your immediate gratification purchases. You will be more than happy when you retire and have enough saved in not only your retirement accounts but, if you didn’t need to use the ‘cushion’ account, or liquid emergency account, they’re still there as well …(along with interest).
  • These are all gifts to you from you!  The idea is to save.  Save every penny you possibly can.

 

Common Sense…..We All Have It

We all have it….but we don’t always use it

Common sense is the logical way of doing something to get the best results in the smartest, and usually easiest way possible.  We all possess it, in one way or another, and we all use it to one degree or another.

It is, in itself, an education. There are those who live on it.

Most, if not all, use it every day.  Common sense tells us if we step out into traffic, we could get hit by a car.  Or if we take a pan out of the oven without using potholders, we’ll burn our hands. These, and hundreds of other examples are ways of using common sense.  We even teach children, at a young age to use it…. put on your jacket so you won’t be cold,  tie you shoelaces so you won’t trip, if you save one hundred pennies, you will have a dollar and so on…and every penny counts…it’s all common sense. You get it.

The point is, if you live beyond you means, spending money that is not there….. that you do not have, knowing this yet still doing this, common sense will tell you that you will be, if you aren’t already, digging a financial hole for yourself….one that not only, depending on how much debt you’re in, can take years to get out of. And the stress it causes can take its’ toll on your health.  Hopefully, you like yourself enough not to do this to yourself.

Reading pages posted herein, will, using common sense, help keep you from getting into a financial hole, where you can choose the ideas that will work best for you and your budget as you move forward, while saving in a way that will bring you to having enough for retirement.

Or, if you already find yourself in a financial hole, again using common sense, choose ideas that will help get you out and with continued discipline on your part can put you on a path to freedom from debt. And then, moving forward, you too will be saving for your retirement. Each person has their reason(s) why and how it happened, but surely you didn’t have getting into debt as a goal.  With hard work on your part, and determination, you too can become debt free. You need to do the work. You need to be continually and consistently budget savvy. It takes discipline…….

It’s common sense.

 

 

Are You In a Serious Relationship — Time To Show And Tell

A Serious Relationship = Serious Talks About Money.

  • If you’re in a relationship and thinking about marriage,….. STOP.
  • Now is the time to have some very serious conversations about the elephant in the room………Money.
  • How the mindset about finances and how the lifestyle of each of you is impacted by it.
  • Are you on the same page about how money is spent and more importantly… saved?
  • The only way to know is to ask…Time for show and tell…beginning with how much debt your intended is in……credit card debt, college loan debt, car loan debt, monthly debt,..any debt.  Specifics……scrutinize statements.  You need to know all this before moving forward.
  • Know how much the other has saved…..specifically in any Retirement Accounts, Cash Reserve 6-12 month ‘Cushion” Account, Liquid Emergency Account, and regular checking and savings.
  • You should know and have the same thoughts about how money is spent, if you stay within a budget and if you save while your intended is a spendthrift, or wasteful in general,
  • Find out if each of you  have the same goals about how money is saved for now (emergency accounts)  and your future (retirement accounts)…. Discipline of doing this is imperative.
  • You should know how and if they save, can budget, pay bills in full and on time, avoid fees. Now is the time for a financial audit.  It’s necessary before you marry.  Show and tell. If not, you’re going in blind.  It will – most definitely – come up in the future.
  • Be very aware that any debt of the other person becomes yours as well….As soon as you say “I do”  The “I do” not only means marriage vows, it also means “I do know that I’m now paying off your debt”.   Any and all debt of theirs, is now yours too. You need to know all this….it’s imperative that you find out — before you say your vows!
  • Knowing there’s a problem now, sure beats finding out there’s a problem later. If you aren’t on the same page with money matters, postpone, or put off completely any plans unless and until their debts are paid.
  • Know also that once married, you will share their Credit Score — Their mess will become your mess…..Their debt will bring your score down.
  • It’s better to walk away now, rather than find in the not too distant future that no matter how disciplined you’ve been at handling your finances, you are now in a financial hole because you have married someone who doesn’t have the same financial mindset as you.

Bank Accounts…… and Fees

Why are You Paying Fees?

You save up some money, open a bank account, and they hand you a pamphlet with a “Fee Schedule”.  It’s your money, they will ‘use’ it, and they’re charging you to do this?????

Look elsewhere.

There are still lots of ‘brick and mortar’ banks, although most individuals prefer the ‘online’ version.  Whichever you decide, check around – you want the most interest, and no fees.

Although with ATM’s there are sometimes fees, if you use one – for convenience – that belongs to a different bank, or if you use one too often within a statement period, you will incur charges.  If this is the only way you can do your banking, be vigilant on the rules and stay within the perimeter to avoid extra charges.

If you are allowed only a certain amount of transactions per statement period, find another bank.  Not everyone fits into their numbers.  If you need to deposit or withdraw from your account, you should be able to do so freely……. and Free.

If you don’t check around, you will notice that your account is taking a financial hit because of fees and charges you’ve incurred.  Money wasted…. which could be in your Retirement Account. And if you overuse the transactions, fees are taken out immediately, so unless you constantly check, you could be making a withdrawal without sufficient funds in the account.  Another fee…your overdrawn.  Be diligent.

A strong suggestion….. use a paper check register.  Be vigilant about entries into and out of your account.  If you do this, you’ll know exactly how much is in your account at any given time. Should you write out a check, you subtract the amount when you do.  The bank will subtract the amount when the check is cashed….which gives you a false amount in your account.  And thinking you have more than you do, you write another check, only to find you have overdrawn your account.  Fees, fees, fees.

Be account savvy….. it’s a benefit to you.